
death is an inevitable cycle of life
unless you want to end up like merryl streep and goldie hawn in the living dead ha ha
yes, when i'm in awkward situations i tend to make a bad joke, sorry
when dealing with deaths, i never know how to react. while normally people have 5 stages of grieves, i only have 2, denial and anger. the passing of my late uncle (brother of my mom) definitely made a big impact in my big family. he was the one who glued our family together (in his own funny ways), especially after the death of my dear grandfather.
i thought i can go into details sharing this story, but turns out i still can't. to picture back to the day he passed makes me feel fragile. i'll tell you how i remember him tho' :D
whenever our family hang out, in a restaurant or in my grandma's house, he would tell the same old story but it still cracks us up, we never grow tired of it. he has a gift of telling a story and making jokes. and he's the kind of 'tell it like it is' guy, so when we have some annoying family members, he always backed us up and made fun of them. aside from his jokes and stories, he had talents for music. he can't play any instruments, but he had an ear for a good sound. sound engineer, producer, song writer he was it. one of my favorite songs that he made is 'gelora asmara', definitely one of his best works.
i also remember how he was really protective of his family. this one time, my unc', auntie (his wife) and i went out to buy a handphone together. while i was looking at some booth my auntie stood behind me and my uncle next to her. out of nowhere this rude guy carrying a big box cut his way through the line, and the box knock into my auntie's face. my unc' asked the guy to apologize, but he blamed my auntie for getting in his way (stupid idiot). without any warning, my unc' landed a jab on his face and told the the guy to apologize. the guy apologized and ran away. people were clapping their hands and i thought 'wow, how cool was that! he just smack that guy to defend his wife!', it was awesome :p
i'm happy that i have good memories of him, some bad ones too, but it just made the good memories even better :D
i hope your flight to the afterlife is pleasant, oom igor.
give my hugs to ompung papa & tante bora.
i will miss your jokes & stories.
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